Reuniting separated couples
Some couples have - for various reasons - been separated for the duration of the lockdown, causing significant emotional distress and making a difficult situation even harder. Options should be considered to allow couples to reunite as quickly as possible. Particular attention should be paid to instances where one or both parties is part of a closed household with no other contacts. Ie. They live alone and are not working on the front line.
The rules as they stand are broad brush - for very good reason - but perhaps they need to be reviewed to consider more specific circumstances to allow some people to move more freely where the additional risk to health is minimal or non existent. Perhaps applications could be made to a panel for approval to visit certain people or receive special dispensation to act differently.
The rules as they stand are broad brush - for very good reason - but perhaps they need to be reviewed to consider more specific circumstances to allow some people to move more freely where the additional risk to health is minimal or non existent. Perhaps applications could be made to a panel for approval to visit certain people or receive special dispensation to act differently.
Why the contribution is important
There is a mental health consideration here, which the government states they are all too aware of. Some people have been living apart from loved ones - sometimes even alone - for a very considerable period now. Changes must be made as quickly as possible wherever possible, and this may require closer examination of personal circumstances.
by sro87 on May 05, 2020 at 01:27PM
Posted by Newleaf11 May 05, 2020 at 13:32
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Posted by Fjhg May 05, 2020 at 13:36
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Posted by Gillian66 May 05, 2020 at 13:39
Totally agree apart from the applying to a panel bit. Too bureaucratic and impossible to police. People should be allowed to see their partners.
Separated couples with young children can go between households at the moment. It is no different from that, especially in families with more than one step parent.
It is safer than meeting with friends if there is only one partner and the individual concerned does not have to be a romantic relationship - could be friend or family member.
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Posted by Suz May 05, 2020 at 13:43
We both adhere to the other measures rigorously.
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Posted by G123 May 05, 2020 at 13:51
The mental health aspect of being separated long term from your partner is just as significant, without a doubt.
Sadly I can’t imagine how long it’ll be before I am allowed to see my partner again as he lives in the US.
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Posted by mairi May 05, 2020 at 13:55
Your partner should be considered as part of 'your household'. Especially if they don't live with others/ those who are more at risk.
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Posted by Jayli May 06, 2020 at 13:42
I can happily not go to the cinema, out for dinner, to the theatre or any of the other stuff I did prelockdown, but I am struggling with not seeing my other half and am very very lonely, and mentally in a difficult place.
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